Monday 30 April 2018

Monday 30 April 2018


Monday morning.....Andy left for London just before 6am this morning and is not back until Wednesday evening.  He works so hard - I am so proud of him.  His job is so demanding.  Andy is the only person I know who works as hard as he does, is so dedicated and is intelligent and driven enough to do it!  I miss him when he is not here.  Just knowing he is in the house is better - knowing he is close....

So....today, I need to get on all my asbestos safety equipment on and get rid of this stuff once and for all!! I'm not sure I can do it in one go, but I need to try as I don't want to have to be getting in and out of the safety gear and possibly spreading asbestos dust around.  so...wellies, overalls, mask, gloves and goggles...special bags....get in there get it off the walls and bagged up and to the tip with it all (after paying over £12 a bag to get rid of it).

I also want to run 10km as I didn't run on Friday - only did 5km on Saturday and didn't run yesterday.

Weight loss back down to 8lb after the weekend.  Seems to be a theme - get to 10lb loss during the week and end up back down to 8lb after the weekend.  So...I need to try harder! and stop ruining it at the weekend!!

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So - I got kitted up and got most of the asbestos off and bagged up (although not sealed yet) apart from a piece under where the sinks were because it is full of screws I can't get out.  Better to come back to it fresh, rather than try when I've just had enough.....

I had lunch, then took ages to get myself out for a run.  I wondered how I would get on because I wasn't really feeling it....

Straight away I was walking more often and didn't do as well as last time on the hills.  By 4km I was debating turning around and coming back - as it would be a shorter 8km run - but it meant coming back on the busy road - rather than the nice paths and country lanes I was almost at.  I could feel a blister on my foot (always the same place)....I kept going knowing I'd have more down-hill runs now rather than up-hill.  It was not easy....at about 8km, my other foot started hurting.  This happens when my feet get too hot - the ball of my foot/toes start to burn and it's really painful.  At 9km, I paused my watch and sat down on the grass and took my trainer off, massaged my foot and let it cool off.  When I stood up to carry on that foot was okay, but my blister on the other foot really hurt!. I managed because I was almost home.  Glad to be back - and still glad I did it!  28km ahead on my challenge and hopefully burnt some fat off from the weekend lol.


Might not be able to run on this for a few days....and my hip is hurting a bit too.....going to go and get in the bath me thinks.....



Saturday 28 April 2018

Saturday 28th April 2018


Morning,

Last night we managed to get the cat (Bitsy) off a little bird she had brought in - it was breathing heavily and looked broken - after a while it calmed down and seemed to straighten up a bit - so we took it outside - and it seemed to run off....

Later we managed to get a tiny tiny mouse off Bitsy - and we released that too!  When we got up this morning - it seemed they must have found the bird and brought it back in again - it was very dead this time - its feathers were everywhere.  It is such a shame and me and Andy are so soft fussing and worrying about these little creatures - trying to feed them before we let them go,  but Bitsy is just too good at catching them.  The kittens love it when she brings them in too - I just hope they are not as good as Bitsy at catching them when they start going out!

Anyway....I woke up at 7am...my alarm was set for 8am so I could get up and do the parkrun - and I didn't go to bed until 1am.  As I woke up early - I got up - Andy was already up.  I felt a little icky, but got ready and went and did the run.  It felt really hard starting off and I thought I was running slowly - and I must have read my watch wrong as it also seemed to say I was behind my normal time.  I managed to run all of it apart from stopping for about 3-4 seconds once.  As usual it all feels awful as I was going around but feels better the closer you get to the end.  Unlike last week I was able to speed up a little near the end - overtaking a girl that had been ahead of me the whole way.  As soon as I finish, instead of thinking this is awful - I think - That was Awesome! hehehe

I am waiting for my official time but according to my watch, it should be just under 33 minutes!  I did the Bushy Park 5km a few years ago and that was my fastest 5km ever at 32.32.  Still slow for most people - but that is now what I am aiming to beat.

Hope I'm not disappointed when the results come in....

So - time was 32.44 - so beat my time again - last week it was 33.22 - and later changed to 33.25. I thought after last week I'd struggle to beat it!  Lets hope I can do it again next week.  Ultimate goal is 30 minutes or under!

This is the half-way point....



This one is coming in at the end!


relief.........

Helen and Paul came around at about 6pm....and we had a great night as usual, catching up, playing pool and generally laughing!  Helen is on a downer about running - thinking she actually doesn't like it and might not run again.  This is because she went out and had a rubbish run that left her feeling pissed off at the end.  I'm trying to persuade her not to give up on it - she hasn't done it much and I think she is expecting too much too soon.  I don't want to lose my running buddy!!!

Friday 27 April 2018

Renovation - two offices to a bathroom!



So, I thought I'd return to writing a little bit about some of the work we have done on the house. The bathroom, was a big job and brought with it many problems!!

A room in this house had been made into two small offices, and as it was partition walls we thought it perfect for knocking back into one room and having it as a bathroom. It was a good location - upstairs in the middle of the house....here is the floor plan showing how it was before...





So, as you can see we needed to take out the walls in the middle of the room. Which also happened to have a radiator on each side - so first we had to get those off the walls!

Below are the two offices - and the doors between them that we also had to remove...












We removed these walls with a week of moving in! Adam and Paul came and helped, and it was a lot more difficult than we had anticipated! The wood holding up the walls, which the plasterboard was attached to - did not want to come out!! and the mess from the plasterboard was awful! The waste we had to get rid of too - seemed to triple in size as we took it out! Plus we couldn't put plasterboard in the tip - we needed special bags which we had to pay for - they were huge and I thought 2 would be enough. It wasn't!

You can see below how awful and dusty it was! This is my crazy husband Andy and my son Adam.




This was the first real look we got of it as one big room rather than two offices!




Tidied up it looked good!









I still had all the woodchip to get off the walls - and it needed plastering - it still had office lights and plug sockets...

So, the plumbers were already about - they saw it as two offices on the Friday when they went home and they came back to it looking like the pic above on the Monday!

I had designed how I wanted the bathroom - it looked something like this: (pic to go in)

So...the plumbers started lifting floorboards etc. and then they hit me with it - we can't do the bathroom in here! They said that there was a massive steel running right across the middle of the floor meaning that they could not run pipes across. Furthermore - because the house is extended further out on the floor below - all the waste pipes had to leave the room in the far corner and they would not be able to get the pipes at an angle so that the water/waste would run down it. Panic, disappointment, worry about the planning permission we'd need to change room...and what other room would it go in?? We scoped the house for other options - pulling up floor boards etc. Eventually they said - if we raised the floor, we could get over the steel thing, and get the angles they needed. So I searched for somebody who could do this for us - and £1,000 and a week later - we had a raised floor!

During this time I also stripped off a ton of woodchip wallpaper (the plasterer had provided me with a young lad - cheap labour to help, as at the time I was also stripping wallpaper off our bedroom wall), and I had all the walls plastered. When I tried to get the wallpaper off the ceiling - it started to come apart, so we had to put in a new ceiling and get that plastered too!! All of which was more expense we didn't expect. Before the bathroom could go in - I needed to tile too. I had done a tiling course whilst we were waiting to buy the house and I was very nervous about tiling it myself - my first attempt!!

I tiled an area where the sinks were going - and I really struggled because the wall was not flat - despite having been plastered.



Then I realised that there was no way I could tile around where the shower would be, because it was going up higher and the wall was so bendy!! I ended up getting the plasterer back to straighten the wall. They did not do a perfect job. I was stressing so much that Paul agreed to come and help me - and between us - I think we did a good job!!




Then...I had to paint, and get the flooring in - before we could finish getting the bathroom fitted. I think it was already October and we'd started this in June! I was desperate for this bathroom! I was so excited because I knew it would be awesome when finished!!

Here it is painted...you can also see the raised floor and the taps ready for the bath...







I cannot seem to find any pics of the floor going in - but I must have some - so will add them if I ever find them!! But it is Amtico, and is a pale grey wood type....thing...very nice!

The next thing that happened is that the whole bathroom went in - apart from the shower because we had so many problems with missing parts. Victoria Plum - have a lot to answer for - that and they sent me two sink pedestals that were all bendy and they looked nothing alike when stood together. The replacements they sent were all smashed - and eventually they checked everything and sent them specially packed etc. Took a LOT of time and stress to get this sorted and even more so with the shower!

So - the end result (I cant show the whole thing in one pic unfortunately - too many weird angles), and you get to see the new floor here too.....drum roll......



































If you go back and compare these to the two offices, or the wall coming down, it makes you (me) realise just what we achieved. These pics don't actually do it justice. It definitely has the wow factor!




FriYAY - nicked that off my daughter!

Hi!

Well....yesterday, the guy came to fit the smart meter and took one look at out 3 phase electricity feed, and declared himself not qualified...

I tried to steam the wallpaper off the walls and it would last about 8 minutes before cutting out, then took an hour before I could turn it back on again!  I cut the grass (the mower worked!) but had to stop before I finished because of rain.  Grass looks like its had half a hair cut!

I ran 5km on the running machine and tried out my new trainers.  They were fine.  I am now 24.5km head on my YVSTY challenge (1018 km in a year).  I think my total is 346km so far...

Weight loss is back at 9.5lb loss.  I can live with that.  Just need to keep it going in that direction - I have another 22lb to lose! I think I'll start feeling better after another 10lb or so...I should start fitting in my clothes again by then!

So today - I can pick up my asbestos safety equipment from about midday...overalls, goggles and mask.  So - I'll do some more wallpaper stripping until then.  I was dreaming last night that our plasterer (Ray) had fitted amazing bathrooms in a our house (not this house, but an amazing big house!) and I was really pleased, but was very worried as we had not agreed a price and he'd just gone ahead and done it.  In my dream I was complaining to Lissa that it may have blown all the money we had left and he should have agreed it first - he heard me and so I was telling him to his face...its AMAZING but.....

This obviously shows that I am worried about the work we have left to do and the lack of money!  We are a few grand short to finish the annex....and I really want to finish it! Paul has offered to help us fit the bathroom ourselves to save some money - and I think we could do it.  That will save some money - but until I get rid of this asbestos and strip the walls we can't move on.

Did I mention yesterday that we got the permission we need to fit the new external door? Well, we have and that's another expense - getting a door made and the doorway put in....having to arrange that would have frightened the life out of me before we moved here, but I've arranged and completed so many projects in this house, i know that everything can get done - you just need money!!


Thursday 26 April 2018

Thursday 26 April 2018


I'm starving! Don't know why I woke up feeling so hungry! Probably because I didn't eat a massive unhealthy take-out last night!

Weight loss is back up to 9.2lb this morning - was 7.5lb yesterday - so feel a bit better that it was a blip.  I knew running 10km would have a good effect.  If anybody reads this and thinks that I am obsessed (about diet and running).  Then you'd be correct.  I don't think I do anything that I don't get obsessed about! I feel sorry for the people around me - I bore them to death, and as much as I try - I can't help myself.  I think to myself - I am not going to tell Andy all about my run today because he won't find it interesting - but then....I tell him all about it!

So - asbestos bags turned up this morning and they are huge - which is what I was hoping for, as it is in big pieces on the wall and I don't want to have to break it up anymore than I have to.  So - I need to go out and buy a protective mask and get on with getting rid of it.  It is going to cost me £12.20 per bag - and that is for a normal rubble bag - and these are twice the size - so I'll probably have to pay x2 for each bag.  :-(

Somebody should be turning up today to fit a smart meter.  No idea if there will be a problem when they see that we have a 3 par thingy rather than 1 par.  I have no idea about the terminology - we just have a bigger feed of electricity coming into the house because we have such a big house. #mansionproblems.

The grass needs cutting again - and I have no idea if the mower is going to start, as it cut out last time and I couldn't get it going again.  If I do get it going, I'm going to have to make sure I do it all in one go and don't turn it off, mid-way around like last time.  That was interesting wasn't it.  Okay, I don't claim to be interesting!!

I found this route on walkjogrun.com - here is the link:

https://www.walkjogrun.net/functions/shareRouteBlog.cfm?rid=F9F53171-E355-1BCB-A758E4949B2E2B32&layout=false

Training

It would be about 12.7km from our house.  I want to try it....although the advice is - only add 1km to your longest run every two weeks.  Actually it is about two weeks since I went up to 10km - but this is an extra 2.7km, so I might have to wait a while....it ends on a big hill too.....and I'd probably get quite a few rests whilst I check my map to see if I am going the right way.  something to aim for....

Wednesday 25 April 2018

Wednesday 25th April 2018


Morning.

I woke up really early this morning - and Andy must have too because he left for work at 5.15am and I know he set his alarm for 6am.

Adam and Erika have left now - and I'm sat here feeling rather depressed after weighing myself.  At one point last week I had lost 11.5lb - and after a weekend with Helen and Paul and a few days with Adam and Erika - all involving eating and drinking - I am have now only lost 7.5lb.  How I can put that much on in less than a week is beyond me - especially as that takes weeks to lose!

Another reason that I am not feeling very happy is because of this:  We booked a holiday to Jamaica for next year.  So when we booked it we had over a year to wait.  It was expensive and involved an upgraded amazing room with a butler and premium flights.  However, I had to wait to April this year to attempt to use my air-miles to upgrade to first class.  I called them yesterday and could only upgrade the flight there as the return flight had sold out.  Okay - not bad - first class there would still be awesome!!  As we were coming to the end of the process of upgrading (after 43 minutes on the phone) the woman said - oh....you need to have paid the holiday off in full and have had your tickets issued, otherwise you cant use your points to upgrade.  Now the problem here is that we were going to cash in shares to pay for it - and when I spoke to Andy - we don't quite have enough.  The whole thing made us realise that this is a lot of money that we don't really have.  So instead of having a first class flight to an amazing holiday in Jamaica - it looks like we might just cancel the holiday.

Cancelling is probably the most sensible thing to do - especially if we want to finish the work on the house.  We could use that share money towards the work.

Anyway....was planning on a 10km run - try out my new trainers and burn off some of my fatty fatty blob blob self.  But it has started to throw it down outside - and I can't do 10km on the running machine it is too boring and it's too easy to quit.

Oh well.....decisions decisions.  I'm going to look on line for a part time job.....

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Well the search for a part time job was over quickly....so as Lissa and Andy both said to me - just go for the run in the rain -  I did! I ran 10.1km in 1hr 10m...in the rain for the first half - and wishing it was raining in the second half! Kept my old trainers on because I didn't want to risk them rubbing on a longer run - and I didn't want to get them muddy lol.

I felt much better after having been for a run - and I tidied up and did some washing etc. and went and had a bath.  Kitten May kept me company - making me nervous that she was going to fall in!!

May sticking her leg into the bubbles...


May for some reason seemed to want to bite the bath tub!



So - now I am waiting for Andy to come home - I'm cooking chicken with chorizo baked potatoes.  Looking forward to eating quite well tonight and chilling out, and not drinking alcohol (even though some red wine would go down nicely!)





Tuesday 24th April 2018


Hi,

So Adam and Erika were here today...we started off with bacon butties...and eventually got ourselves into Taunton. I took my trainers back and exchanged them for other Nike trainers.  Then Erika bought Adam a Barbour coat...he gets spoilt off Erika - and Luckily for him she has good taste...expensive good taste!

We came back home and decided that we would not go out - we'd get take-out.  We played pool and waited for Andy to emerge from the basement where he was working.  That didn't happen until gone 7pm - which us usual lately with his new role.  He works so hard and such long hours...

So then me and Andy beat them at pool 6-0 or did they win one? Cant remember now!  We ordered really unhealthy kebab and chips...which I didn't enjoy very much...and then Adam and Erika beat us both at cards! lol

Andy had to get up about 6am....and we were all quite tired so I think we went off to bed at 11pm!!  I never go to bed that early! 





Monday 23 April 2018

Monday 23 April 2018


Good Mawnin!

I'm a bit tired today, although I got 8 hours sleep last night which is unusual!  Think it is just taking me some time to wake up properly!

Yesterday at Helen and Pauls we watched the London marathon...me and Helen seemed to enjoy it the most - I really enjoyed watching it.  I do not dream of doing it one day - seems way too hard to me! One day I'd like to do a half marathon (20 km)...I joked to Helen that we could do the Taunton half marathon next year...you never know though - depends how our training goes, and if we stick to it and not get injured.  I was debating putting myself in for a 10km run next Sunday in Bridgwater, but then realised that it is full!  Helen is still not admitting that she will do the Taunton 10km with me in September this year...but I think she will.

After the weekend and all the food and drink - I am back down to an 8lb loss (since jan) and it had got up to 11.5lb so that is a bit crap.  On the up-side according to my fitbit I am now in the "very good" range for cardio fitness!

I have a fairly busy day ahead as Adam and his gf Erika are coming to stay for a couple of days and it is Erika's 30th Birthday today - so I need to go out and buy a cake and some balloons and that kinda stuff.  I also need to get the house clean and tidy, change the bed, empty cat litter, get bins out...etc. I also wanted to go out and do a 10km run - but I'll have to play that by ear!

We are going out for a meal with Adam and Erika later - so more food and drink tonight!  This is why my diet fails - and I would not dream of eating a salad and being alcohol free!  So....really need to do that run today....

Right, better finish my coffee and get going then or I won't have enough time in the day....

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So - I went into taunton - and bought myself a new pair of trainers, 2 new running tops, a pair of ankle boots....then I get the stuff for Erika! Got a card, banners, helium 30th balloon, normal balloons, a birthday cake hat a birthday cake and 30th candles!  Got home and me and Andy put these things up at the windows so she would see it as she came in.  I then changed the bed and got tidy etc. and just about got 4km run in before they got here. 

Let me just mention though  - my new Nike Zoom Pegasus trainers - were very disappointing - not enough cushioning so I could feel the tread through the bottom of the trainer.  Gutted.  They were £80 too....so might try taking them back.

So Adam and Erika got here - hope she enjoyed all the things that we did.  We hung around for a but and they then played pool while I got a shower and got ready - then we all had a few drinks and got a taxi into Taunton.  Had a few more drinks and then headed to bare grills restaurant.  Had amazing food...went for another drink and then got a taxi back.  We played pool for a while but all basically crashed before midnight!!

Andy being silly taking a group pic...


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Then the proper one...








Saturday 21 April 2018

Saturday - park run day!

Morning all,

I woke up this morning at 7.30...before my alarm went off. I wanted to do the park run today and beat my time.  I've only done it twice before and my times were 35:51 the first time and 36:22 the 2nd time.  On both occasions there was a long section of really awful mud and on the second occasion the puddles were more like long long rivers!  Today was dry and so much better!  I was determined to beat my time and I've done a lot of running lately.  My time today was 33:22!! So beat it by quite a bit!

I am aiming for less than 30 minutes but that's quite a lot to knock off, so don't expect to do than any time soon!

I was really pleased with my time, although it was a little disheartening to see I was so far down on the list of the results - I came 294th out of 357.   This is an incentive to do better!


Hehe...I was obviously happy to finish! Think this is me saying YAY!



I came home and had a lovely soak in the bath...then we eventually got ready and went to Helen and Pauls.  Saw their amazing new kitchen, had a few drinkies and went out into Paignton, and to our usual haunt - The Spinning Wheel - AKA The Spinney.  They always have a band on and Andy and Paul said tonight's was rubbish - to be honest me and Helen were chatting so much I didn't hear them.  We chatted loads - lots about running as we have now both got into it.  It is brilliant having somebody to talk to about running - who is about the same standard as me.  We spoke about running shoes, running bra's, routes that we do, hill runs...etc.  SO boring for anybody not into running - I was worried I would bore Helen, but I really think she is just as enthusiastic as me!

Anyway - we also had a really good laugh too - it wasn't ALL about running!!





So, a good time was had by all!  We went home via the kebab shop and I had chips and curry sauce - god it was good!!!  Think I went to bed about 2am,,,,thinking...not too sure about running tomorrow....

Friday 20 April 2018

Friday!


Morning!

I had a really bad nights sleep last night - decided to leave my door open so the cats could come in - not doing that again! Periodically one of them would jump on the bed and wake me up by walking over me and at 5am mercky decided to come and sit on my head and purr so loudly! She then decided to paddy-paw on my face and lick my eyelids and my lip!!

My eyes are stinging today, I guess because I didn't get much sleep! I am sat here with a dilemma about what to do today.  I should really be getting the tiles out of the bathroom as I now know that they are not asbestos...or continue to strip the wall paper in the bedroom.  However, I am also wondering if I should go for a run before it gets too hot but its already 10.22....I could also spend the day getting the house clean and tidy ready for the weekend....oohhh what to do.....

I could go and get ready for a run....do a shortish one....then get some work done in the house - and finish early enough to get the house tidy ready for Andy coming home.  That sounds like a plan.....

six hours later

So, I went for a run - 7.4km so not so short...here it is:


So my average time was 6.58 min/km which is quite good for me.   Just before I went for a run Mercky decided to try and climb up my leg...as soon as I looked down, my leg was bleeding! I have little cuts all over my legs as their claws are like little razor blades!!



Anyway, I got back home, and got the quote back from the plumbing/electrics for the annex - I had put £3,500 in the budget, hoping it would be less and it has come back as £6,200.  We don't have £6,200...so that was bad news.  Then I got a call about the asbestos testing we got done the other day on the tiles in bathroom.  He just wanted to check that I'd understood the results.  As it happens, I hadn't because I thought that it said it was not asbestos - but it was!! So - that was bad news too....got to figure out how to get rid of it now!

So, rather than work on the house, I decided to dye my hair and then go out into the garden for a bit. Its so gorgeous, we are so fortunate to have such an amazing house and garden.  Big cat Itsy joined me in the garden...

Underneath the Indian Bean Tree (which incidentally, doesn't grow beans and is not from India)

  

Big Cat (as opposed to one of the kittens) Itsy:


View of the garden (big tree is the Indian Bean tree)


Me messing about sending snapchats to Lissa:


So...now I await Andy's return.  He's caught in traffic so he will probably be a bit stressed and tired.  Hopefully getting back to our awesome house and having the weekend ahead will make him feel better! I am going to go and sit in the garden and give him a call....

xx




Thursday 19 April 2018

The sun has got his hat on...


The hottest April day since 1949! So...decided to do more stuff in the garden.  Actually the gardeners were here this morning...Chloe and Neil.  They used to look after the garden before we moved in - so we asked them to carry on.  This was supposed to be until we got the time to do it - but we'll never be ble to do what they do! They know what they are doing and we don't! The garden is very big - probably 3/4 acre and there are all sort of things growing in it - its amazing in the summer.

Chloe usually nips in to use the loo - and this morning I was still in bed! It was about 9.15am and I felt really guilty about being in bed at that time.  I was awake and on my phone...but still ended up answering the door in my dressing gown!

I had cut the grass yesterday - so today I raked the dead grass up - took forever - I then decided to mow again and go a little shorter, I got about half way through and then the STUPID mower wouldn't start again!! I really wanted to hit it with something...or set it alight....

Let the kittens out in the garden for a bit and they loved it! bit too ambitious though and I thought I would lose them - so had to get them back in and I felt so guilty!

So now...I am not sure what to do with myself.  Andy isn't here and he is not back until tomorrow. It is almost 5pm...so I suppose I can get a shower...then errrrr.  Or, I could rest my legs a bit then maybe go on the running machine for a little bit.

Anyway...not feeling in a great mood now.  Don't like it when Andy is not here and still annoyed about the mower lol.  Here are some pics of the kittens in the garden that will cheer me up...

Kitten
Mercky (above) and May (below)








below is Itsy stalking May



Wednesday 18 April 2018

Today - continued.

So - went out and did my run.  Went through the no entry bit and didn't get shot by a farmer, although sort of wished I would when I saw how steep the hill was!

This was today's routes:



This was 6.78km, and I did it in 48:36 which isn't bad for me.  I got home had a bit of a rest and then went out to cut the grass.  Kept my Polar watch on which tracks me - here it is:


Hehe...doesn't look like I did straight lines, but it looked good....


It took almost an hour and a half to cut the grass and my watch told me I burnt 500 calories - and just less than that on the run...so a good day!  My feet hurt however!

I was chatting to Lissa via messenger on my phone when one of the cats started meowing - it was Itsy.  The one I said didn't bother bring mice in.  She had a mouse! Poor thing was running away and she was cornering it, picking it up and letting it go again.  Mouse was squealing and obviously frightened to death.  I managed to catch it - and I let it out of the front of the house, so hopefully if the cat went straight back out (the back) she wouldn't find it again!


It's such a nice day today - and although Andy is working from home - he is in the basement and wont be finished until gone 6pm.  Its supposed to be even nicer tomorrow - and he is working in Bracknell - and wont be home tomorrow night.  So we wont be able to have a BBQ :-(  As usual the weather is not expected to last into the weekend.




Wednesday 18th April 2018


Morning!

We were welcomed this morning as we came down the stairs with lots of feathers.  Andy said:

Cat Cluedo. We think it was Bitsey, in the hallway, with the teeth and claws.

We couldn't find the bird at first then Mercky appeared with it - throwing its corpse in the air and all over the place.  It seems to be Bitsy that goes out and kills stuff.  Not seen evidence of Itsy doing it and Mercky and May don't go out yet.  Bitsy started with worms - and now it is birds and mice!  She brought me a dead mouse and a dead bird to my bed one night!  Was lovely waking up to that - looked like somebody had a pillow fight with the amount of feathers around my bed!  Once she brings them in and stops playing with it - the kittens take over!

Today is supposed to be a really nice day - first in a long time - 20 degrees.  The sun is out and all I can think is: I'm not going to be able to run in this!  I have no idea how people go running in places like Florida - how do they do it!! I prefer cold and rain! I need to go early before it gets too warm and its already 9.53am. 

I need to cut the grass too - and because the garden is so big it takes me about an hour and a half, and I usually do about 10,000 steps.  I definitely need to do my run before than or I wont have the energy.

Think I will do a shorter route of about 6.7km - it involves going down a lane that says no entry - but I don't think it is private land - I think it is just so narrow that it is one way...and I need to face oncoming traffic so that is the way I need to go.  At least it is illegal for farmers to shoot trespassers, so if it is private the worst that can happen is that I'll get told off!

Can't quite believe that I managed to write all this without the cats on my keyboard...






Tuesday 17 April 2018

Some history of Bishops Hull House (to be continued)

We bought Bishops Hull House last may (2017) and I did quite a bit of research about it and the people that have lived here.

The house was build in the late 1700's but we can't be exact...I have only found mention of the house from about 1819 when the Pattons lived here.  It was Thomas Patton (1792-1876) and his wife Matilda Patton (1799-1889).  They had nine children whilst living here...they were:

Emma (1820-1893)
Walter (1821-1901)
Herbert (1823-?)
Clara (1825-1909)
Matilda (1823-1913)
Isabel (1830-1892)
Henry (1835-1915)
Thomas (1839-1925)
Aubrey (1841-1916)

I could not find any portraits or paintings or any of these people, however when Clara got older she had her portrait taken and I found reference to it at the National Portrait gallery - so I got in touch and they developed the negative for me.  So...here is Clara:


This is quite lengthy - but I found this from Stoke St Mary historical records:

THOMAS PATTON                   DESCRIPTION OF THOMAS PATTON,
Thomas Patton, lived at Bishops Hull but bought the Stoke House and Stoke Court estate, and whose son was Brigadier General Henry Bethune Patton of Stoke Court.  This description of Thomas Patton written by his grandson.

Thomas Patton lived quietly and unobtrusively at Bishops Hull about two miles from Taunton during many long years.  He died in 1876 and I remember him as a simple and very kindly old man, whom, after so long an experience of him, the neighbourhood regarded with sincere affection.

Details of his early life might be interesting, but are not to hand.  His name still appears about once a year in the Birth, Marriage and Death columns of the Press and here he is usually described as “The late Captain Patton, RN, JP”.

To the best of my belief both these statements are inaccurate; but he was a lieutenant or lieutenant-commander in the Navy.  He told us that when he set out on his first voyage as a midshipman in November 1805 – his ship met the Victory returning from Trafalgar with Nelson’s body on board.  He saw service in the Napoleonic wars and after a naval engagement at Mauritius, was captured by the French;  they did not ill treat him, but made him cook for them.

He must have retired from the Service early, as he married in 1819 and settled down at Bishops Hull House where his nine children were born, and his wife died in 1889.  My grandmother once told me that when he called to propose to her (at Bishops Hull) he was dressed in a blue swallow-tale coat with brass buttons and white duck trousers.

One little incident in connection with him I may relate; it shows how many miles we are from the paternal influences which used to prevail in English villages.  

Very early on a bright morning in summer Mr Patton, looking forth from his bedroom window, espied a couple of boys busily grabbing apples from his trees.  He hastened down, and identified them. After considering the matter from the point of view of justice and mercy, he gave them a choice of penalties.  Either they were to face the rigours of the police court, or they were to stand for an hour or two secured to the church gate, labelled with a card which published their offence. They chose the latter alternative and the announcement runs somewhat thus:  “These naughty boys were caught stealing apples at 5 am (or whatever the time was) this morning in Mr Patton’s orchard”.  “ I can see them standing there now,” said my father when he told me about it.  

As I have said, he remained plain Thomas Patton, although possessing abundant wealth with which to distinguish himself if he had so desired.  Certainly he knew nothing of the hyphenated Scotticism with which some of us are decorated.  Who the original Bethune (pronounced Bee-ton) was I have not been able to ascertain.  It is certainly an old and pleasant name.

There was a Mary Beton (spelling ad lib)
And Mary Seton
And Mary Carmichael
And me

And there was the ill-fated Cardinal Beaton of James IV’s time.  But these will not serve as ancestors.  Nor can it be suggested that we ever dwelt in the now well-known little place in France called Bethune.  All I know is that in 1747 Mr Patton’s grandfather marked a Miss Bethune.  This lady was a considerable heiress, but the will under which the property would have passed to her descendants was successfully contested in the Courts of Edinburgh in 1815.  The family dwelt for many years at Clatter in Fifeshire and being Scotch, was presumably quite respectable.

Perhaps the fact most worthy of record is that three of Thomas Patton’s brothers – Henry, Peter and James – died in the service of their country during the Napoleonic wars.

Old Mrs Patton, as she was generally called lived in the house at Bishops Hull for at least seventy years, and few indeed were the days when she might not have been found at home.  She never took the slightest interest in anything beyond her home and children.  She was a member of the Winsloe family.  Her father was vicar of Ruishton, Taunton and her brother, Richard Winsloe was the father of Lady Tennant and grandfather of Admiral Sir Alfred Winsloe, of Lord Glenconner and of Miss Tennant who is now Mrs Asquith.  She was a niece of Mr Walter MP the original proprietor of The times and from him she inherited a large interest in the great paper.

Old Mr and Mrs Patton spent many happy years in Bishops Hull, singularly prosperous and free from trouble.  Their children nearly all did well.  Their eldest son gained some distinction in the Crimean and other wars, and became a General and Honorary Colonel of his regiment, the 74th Highlanders.  The second son, Herbert, died in the Crimea. The third son, after seeing service in the Indian Mutiny, devoted himself with remarkable keenness to the organisation of the Auxiliary Forces of West Somerset for about fifty years.  His efforts were recognised and he received the local rank of Brigadier General and was made a CB.  In his eightieth and last year he was fervently addressing recruiting meetings in view of the outbreak of the Great War.  The daughters were happily married to good men of their own position in the upper middle class.

To the father and mother wealth came very easily, and they bought many houses and lands in the village and beyond.  The extensive property at Stoke St Mary was purchased by the old man from Prebendary Smith of whom something is said elsewhere in these pages.  They met one day in the road, and hastily struck a bargain.  Mr Patton repented immediately, but the clergyman had been sharp enough to secure five shillings in part payment and this of course rendered the agreement binding.  And so for many years various members of the family have lived in the houses at Stoke, and the old people and some of their children lie in the churchyard there.  

I find the above - fascinating.  It is amazing knowing something about the people that lived in our house.

Matilda Patton, was the longest living resident of Bishops Hull at the time of her death.

The house had many acres originally, with orchards, vegetable garden, stables, tennis court and croquet lawn.  It would have stood quite alone and would have looked very grand and impressive (it still looks impressive!).  The census showed that they had maids and a butler (about 5 members of staff).